Moth to a flame, cat to the dame, dragon to loot

Choose your bait well and the hunt will succeed
Your captive will come of his own free will
Beg for the prison of your special charm
Trust you to keep him from anguish or harm

My lady, be strong with your closest friends
Take no prisoners, lest they grow dependent
Give personal space and some time apart
To be theirs, unintrusively, is a fine art